Thursday, February 19, 2009

Are you sweating the small stuff???

A sweet friend of mine sent me this awesome list... it is a great reminder to NOT sweat the small stuff ... and heaven's knows ... we are ALL guilty of that in one way or another!!!

And I know many of you are Erma Bombeck fans too, so ... enjoy!

(written after she found out she was dying from cancer).

1. I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.

2. I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.

3. I would have talked less and listened more.

4. I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.

5. I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

6. I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

7. I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.

8. I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

9. I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.

10. I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.

11. I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

12. Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

13. When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, 'Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.' There would have been more 'I love you's' More 'I'm sorry's.'

14. But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute. Look at it and really see it ... live it and never give it back.



Susanne said...

I love Erma. We'd do well to heed that advice.

Donnetta said...

This is so good! Thanks for such a fabulous reminder today!!

LvlyRita said...

So true. But my sweet hubby doesn't always get this as a good life philosophy :)

Barb said...

I'm such a devoted Erma fan, I actually have an Erma quotes file in my file cabinet. And this is in there. It's just a crying shame she died so young.